An Elegant European Inspired Estate

Weddings and Events that are Uniquely Yours.

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Find Your Escape, Without Having To.

The Bower provides the perfect blend of nature and luxury. With its stunning outdoor spaces and gorgeous indoor facilities, this venue is the ideal place to celebrate your special day. The outdoor spaces at The Bower are nothing short of breathtaking. With lush gardens and scenic views of the surrounding landscape, the venue provides the perfect backdrop for an exquisite outdoor wedding. Whether you choose to exchange vows in the beautifully manicured gardens or on the scenic terrace, your wedding ceremony will be a truly unforgettable experience. Inside, The Bower is equally impressive. The venue features an elegant and spacious ballroom, perfect for grand receptions and parties. Whether you're looking for a traditional or a more modern setting, we have everything you need to make your wedding day or event unforgettable.


Discover Our Spaces

The Bower has unique venue options to host everything from small intimate gatherings to all-inclusive weekend events. Our spaces are designed to make your special event a distinctive and enjoyable experience.

Why Choose The Bower?

No matter what event you are planning, big or small, our mission is to make it unique and unforgettable. Our experienced staff will be there to help you the entire way!

Lovely European Inspired Design

Enjoy the luxury of our European estate with modern amenities. You won't find another venue like it.

Beautiful On Site Lodging

Our All-Inclusive Package includes lodging, the use of the entire property and all amenities for a relaxing weekend with family and friends.

Friend Accommodations

We welcome all the fur children! Our property includes a large outdoor dog run as well as an indoor pet guestroom with a dog shower and pet door for indoor/outdoor access.

Scenic Surrounds

With our gardens, lake, pool, firepit and pavillions, our goal is to make it incredibly easy to relax and enjoy.

About The Bower

Discover the story of our private estate and lush gardens

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Formerly a private estate, the owners were inspired to bring their love for Europe to Oklahoma. They thoughtfully designed everything on the property to emulate the lush gardens and magnificent architecture found during their travels. After hosting a family wedding, they realized that they could provide something unique that was missing from the wedding venue market in Oklahoma. They began imagining a place that friends and family could gather for the day, or an entire weekend, and feel like they had been transported to a European destination without having to travel. The owners wanted to share their vision with everyone needing a place to celebrate special moments and make lasting memories. The Bower was created with the inspiration to bring both European influence and modern timeless amenities together to create a one of a kind Oklahoma venue.

A Million
Times Over
I Will Always
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We are at your service to address any queries you may have regarding our venue space, events, bookings, and related matters. While we have provided answers to some frequently asked questions, we encourage you to reach out to us for further assistance without any hesitation.

When are you accepting bookings for your first weddings?

We are currently offering private tours of the venue and are accepting bookings for 2024-2025 weddings. Please inquire to book a tour.

How many guests can The Bower accommodate?

We can accommodate events with up to 450 guests.

How many guests can The Bower accommodate to stay on your suites?

The Bower House accommodates up to 14 guests. The estate house also houses a separate couples suite, including a private area and a hot tub.

Do you only book weddings, or can I book other events here?

Weddings, Parties, Corporate Events, we welcome them all. Smaller events and parties can be held in the main house or in our garden.

4600 W Covell, Edmond OK 73012
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